For me, this word transports me to a scene from science fiction where a human is told by a cyborg or alien, "You will be assimilated." The human must be changed to fit into this new society and, ultimately, survive. It's a dark concept. While this is futuristic in some ways, it's also something that I and many others grapple with in today's society.
Last month, I had the honor of joining a panel discussion featuring an amazing group of local leaders at the Twin Cities Asian Executive Leadership (TCAEL) Conference, a virtual event hosted by Target and sponsored by local Twin Cities' corporations, including Ecolab. During the event I was asked to reflect on the word assimilation and its relation to stereotypes and to share my thoughts on how we can move beyond assimilation in the workplace.
This question forced me to stop, think and reflect on the meaning of assimilation. According to the Oxford dictionary, assimilation is the absorption and integration of people, ideas or culture into a wider society or the process of becoming similar to something.
For me, it boils down to a simple question: how do I fit in? More importantly, how do I fit into an existing culture without becoming hidden, without being the center of attention, without making it hard for people to digest and without losing myself - including the value that I could add. It can be quite a needle to thread!
